He seems to be a bit of an asshole, but he is just telling it like it is. We aren't at the point in American white nationalism to where people are being conscripted into it with little choice. We are at the point where people like Ashley actively choose to be white nationalists and also actively chose to storm the capital. In a way, Ashley is akin to one of the true believers who followed Hitler before he took power. You simply can't feel sorry for those people. I'm sure many of them also had parents who wondered where they went wrong. And at earlier points in their lives, perhaps they could have been saved. But once you are engaging in an active attempted revolt in order to create or preserve a white nationalist country under the command of a single demagogue, you can no longer be saved.
But I actually do feel some sympathy for the later Nazi grunt who was conscripted, perhaps against his will, and thrown into battle against the US or especially the Soviets. I have less sympathy for the ones that were conscripted against their will, yet manned the concentration camps, even if I can also consider the fact that I might have made the same choices under the same circumstances in order to save my own life. We all like to think we would go out like a hero instead, but the truth is that most of us wouldn't. However, I have no sympathy at all for the ones who chose that path whether brainwashed or not. The ones who worked by choice early on so that later they could force others into doing unthinkable things.
That isn't to say that Ashley is the only one to blame. She clearly thought that there would be no repercussions for storming the capital. She did deserve to die for storming the capital. So did everyone else that did it. But she should have expected this risk because revolution always carries the risk of death. And she didn't expect it. Her leaders, Trump, Cruz, Hawley, and other politicians who carried on the charade which goaded her into action should be tried for their leadership in orchestrating this attempted coup. Revolutionaries, whether bad ones like the Nazis or good ones like the Americans, don't get to lose and go home. They either win or they die. Trump's followers think they can just fuck around without finding out. Heads need to be busted and blood needs to be shed, and when that is done, many will quit and we can see how many actual revolutionaries there are and how many were just fucking around. You don't see left wing groups that may want revolution attacking the capital for a reason. They know they can't win and they will die doing it. The response to Trumpists needs to be the same so they can finally understand the same.