Kid1 is in daycare 3 days a week. 2 yr old starts in the fall. Even if they weren’t, InLaw day care is not entirely offsetting for additional bed & bath, 3 squares for 365 for 2 extra adults. Coming more often =\= living with indefinitely. Have that chef move all the way in for 90 days and tell me how good that chop taste. I don’t store the Perry’s chef’s Xmas and Easter shit or his grandmothers china. I don’t feed his dog. I don’t see him in his robe without dentures at 0600 or his stained sweatpants at 21:45. I don’t see him watch real housewives in a room I pay for with a glass of wine when there are dirty dishes, dirty clothes, a crying kid downstairs, and a dog scratching at the back door. When I’m tired from a workday and want a beer and to relax with my kids the Perry chef doesn’t pop into the living room to tell me about the fight she just had with her sister earlier in the afternoon. I don’t mean to bitch too much. I generally get along just fine with my in-laws and they are usually a big help. Just need some space and “thanks for the whole room and board thing” every now and again.