“If there’s a heaven”? You don’t sound like you are a believer. If that’s the case, why do you care what I think the Bible teaches about the subject? Or that I have the audacity to believe gay marriage isn’t Biblical. I certainly don’t have any issue with gay marriage outside of my church. I’ve supported the legal right for gays to be married in the USA basically my entire adult life.
I am not judging anyone. It’s not my business. Only God gets to judge his children. Other than responding to posts on surly, I spend no energy on the subject of homosexuality and the Bible. Of the thousands of sermons and Bible studies I’ve listened to or participated in, the subject just does not come up.
I don’t understand why God’s word says what it does about homosexuality. It’s not for me to question. His ways are not mine. But I know what the Bible does say. And I won’t be involved in a church that contradicts biblical truth just so it can conform to the current world culture. Not going to happen. Other people can do what they want in their churches. Doesn’t affect me, my wife, or my children.