Slow methodical change is great when you are not the one being victimized.
I hope you are completely missing it. I hope you haven't realized is that there is a joining of oppositional positions on this issue, and they are not joined based on a policy towards Israel, but on a policy that the University should not be suppressing students from exercising their rights in a peaceful manner. It is not about their message. Is it not about if their strategy or campus protests are impactful. What people are upset about is that our Governor, The University President, used an arm of law enforcement to suppress the lawful rights of individuals, assaulted them, battered them, and arrested them under false pretenses. Full stop.
You don't think it is a big deal, but we do. The government's resources are to be used for the public good, not for the political whims of the elected and appointed, and certainly not to deprive individuals of their rights. This will not stop here.
If you understand these points and consider yourself an American, then you should care. Because these are fundamental parts about the identity of this society. That doesn't mean you have to be a flag fucker. It doesn't mean you have to put the Founding Fathers on a pedestal. But if you give a shit about leaving a legacy for our children that we live in an open and self-deterministic free society, then give a shit about authoritarianism tactics being used by the state, even against those you dislike and despise.
BTW, I am with you on people protesting in highways fucking traffic up for everyone else. But let's not conflate one group with another just because they have some alignment.