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Lidig8r

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  1. We now know that in some cases of depression, rTMS (repetitive transmagnetic cranial stimulation) is being utilized with success. So much so that many insurance benefit providers have approved this for treating depression ... and eating disorders. [I gave a horribad TEDx talk on rTMS about 4 years ago when I was still in a deep fog.] Doctors are also turning to a ketamine regiment to treat severe depression and ... eating disorders. It too has shown promise and like rTMS, has been approved by some insurance companies. Am embedding an article on rTMS. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/tms-depression#who-is-it-for
  2. Hey Poll Boy, with regard to Less/Fewer ...
  3. Have been to Monarch three times now. Each time a great experience. When my SO and I go to any upscale place, one of the first things I tell the wait person is, "We are going to be eating very European. Which means, we are going to be here a good, long while." We have never received push back. Talk to the sommelier every time. Ask their advice/opinions on food/wine pairing (even if the intention is to order by the glass). Set expectations at the start.
  4. Surly... I am so disappointed in you. No pics of Judge Robinson? In her prime ...
  5. Get Off My Lawn Time. How many full or partial Nike logos can you spot on the uniform? (Do not include the football.) I spy, with my little eye ... FOURTEEN (14)! Compared to THREE (3) Longhorn logos. Ok... bitching time over. At least we don't look like a fucking NASCAR car any longer.
  6. Let's see ... taking a quick look at 15 USC 1692e, we may have violations of: A debt collector may not use any false, deceptive, or misleading representation or means in connection with the collection of any debt; (2)The false representation of— (A) the character, amount, or legal status of any debt; (4) The representation or implication that nonpayment of any debt will result in the arrest or imprisonment of any person or the seizure, garnishment, attachment, or sale of any property or wages of any person unless such action is lawful and the debt collector or creditor intends to take such action. (5) The threat to take any action that cannot legally be taken or that is not intended to be taken. (10) The use of any false representation or deceptive means to collect or attempt to collect any debt or to obtain information concerning a consumer. There are other possible state and federal statute violations as well. [I used to represent debt collection companies in federal courts throughout the United States.] I am embedding a summary judgment I got in federal court in Colorado on an FDCPA case: https://casetext.com/case/burns-v-anderson-crenshaw-associates-2
  7. This is horribad.
  8. And of course, there is the possible issue of "mitigation of damages." Any aggrieved party ordinarily has the duty to mitigate its own damages. (some exceptions exist). According to the Big 12 Conference’s bylaws, a withdrawing member must pay a buyout fee that is equal to the sum of the amount of distributions that otherwise would be paid to the member during the final two years of its membership. Therefore, regardless of a lawsuit, OU and UT ordinarily have to pay a buyout fee to the Big 12. According to the Big 12, in the event that we decide to leave early, UT and ou will be required to pay the amount of actual losses and damages. The effect of leaving early would be a violation of the Grant of Rights Agreement referenced in the bylaws, which gives the right to the conference’s television partners to televise the departing team’s games until the end of the contract. Ordinarily, UT and ou would have to negotiate a settlement amount or pay damages to the conference for causing the conference to be unable to fully realize the revenue from its television contract. Similar to the WAC and Big East cases, member schools or the conference itself could file suit against OU and UT. But, if the Big 12 were smart, it would be negotiating for a different for a buyout fee and an agreement to schedule Big 12 opponents for a specified amount of time. And this is where it gets interesting. Apparently, to further expedite this impending issue, the AAC stated that it is willing to negotiate a higher exit fee to allow the three departing teams to leave for the Big 12 earlier than expected. If the Big 12 does not pursue this, are they truly mitigating its damages? If the Big 12 does not reach out to viable future members for inclusion sooner rather than later, are they truly mitigating its damages? The Big 12 accepted a ridiculously low amount from aggy and Misery when they left. Precedent has been set. The Big 12 has a chance to renegotiate its television contracts with commitments from Pac 12 teams. NOW is the time to go to the Big 12 and say this is our last year!
  9. https://www.visitnewportbeach.com/vacations/balboa-peninsula/
  10. I've had this bad boy about 20 years. It has seen courtrooms from California to Rhode Island. I got it at the Coop. Just had new wheels and handle put on it. He refurbished the leather as much as he good. I've lost count on the number of compliments I have received on it.
  11. God forgive me. I'm curiously aroused.
  12. The SO and I were in Hawaii over New Years Eve. Great hotel and the toilet had a bidet seat. That made me remember how much I do like them. So, returning home, I found a Brondell Bidet for about $300 at Home Depot. The blue night light on it is handy. The quality is pretty sound. We liked it so much that I got another one and had it installed in the bathroom used mostly by guests (and me since it is just outside of my home office.) Am a confirmed Bidet Man. Bring on the naysayers. Haters gonna hate,
  13. The People of Walmart are professional Denver sports teams in general. See below: Colorado Avalanche (NHL): Owned by Ann Walton Kroenke Denver Broncos (NFL): Owned by Rob Walton Colorado Mammoth (NLL): Owned by Stan Kroenke Denver Nuggets (NBA): Owned by Ann Walton Kroenke Colorado Rapids (MLS): Owned by Stan Kroenke
  14. Lidig8r

    Dallas | Italian

    Well, THAT was inevitable! The old Carbone's filed suit in fed court today agains the hipster Carbone. The allegations are pretty damning. Should be interesting. I don't know what this could do in terms of the longevity of the hipster Carbone, but if you boys intend on going there, perhaps sooner would be better than later. https://www.docketalarm.com/cases/Texas_Northern_District_Court/3--22-cv-01184/CARBONES_FINE_FOODS_AND_WINES_LLC/1/
  15. Lidig8r

    Dallas | Italian

    Ok, first consider I am a very young (read ... immature?) 63 year old. I like very good food and have not screamed "Get off my lawn" at the neighborhood kids for quite some time. (Although I have asked a few of them to bring their divorced mom over from time to time). Anyway, I digress ... Friday night, we had 10:45 reservations for 4 at Carbone. The mindset was very much, "cool, we get to dine very European." So, we drive up. You see a number of upscale cars parked, valet is right in front of restaurant. A tall, thin late 20 year old African American gentleman in a tuxedo and tennis shoes greets you at the door. Ok, they're going for more of an edgy look. That's cool. Inside, we had a brief (less than 5 minute wait) and are escorted to our table. The crowd is mostly late 20s to late 40s. Fairly racially diverse. The decor is a throw back to mid 80s Dallas with funkiness mixed in. Cushy chairs, loveseats, plush furnishings. For some reason, I get a feeling that perhaps they are trying awfully hard to "be something." In any event, let it go, just enjoy the food. That's when you notice the music being played in the background/foreground. It is 70s era disco music... BeeGees, Donna Summer, Abba. Loud enough that you have to speak somewhat loudly to carry on a conversation at the table. The wait person comes over, takes our drink order, is knowledgeable about the menu. And the free amuse bouche arrive .. three different types of bread, pickled cauliflower, soppressata and then much like Il Mulino, another waitstaff brings over a wheel of parmesan cheese and slices some for you. Very tasty. Ok.. .we are on track here. The appetizer course consisted of ... oysters and beets siciliana. The beets were excellent! We then order 3 entrees for the table. Spaghetti Puttanesca, Pork Chop and peppers, and our "go to" at any new Italian restaurant, veal parmesan. The Spaghetti was a bit ... flat. The pasta, although obviously cooked fresh, was bland and the sauce did not bring out the flavor. The Pork Chop was passable. The flavors were good especially as you got closer to the bone. But, quite frankly, Pork Chop Friday at Perry's Steakhouse was far better. Then, the veal parmesan. My understanding is that the veal cutlet is pounded for essentially two reasons, (1). it provides a quicker cooking time because it is uniformly even, and (2). the pounding breaks down connective tissue making the veal more tender. The veal that was brought to us was ... thick. The wait staff person sliced it and then served it like it was pizza. The flavors were not bad. But ... We finished with espresso martinis or French 75s. So, on a scale of 1 - 5 ... I give this place a 2.5. The food quality wise is on a level with Speranza in North Dallas but far more expensive. The music and atmosphere was too over the top. The Sommelier was in his late 40s, knew their wine menu well, but started dancing a bit to the music. So, in terms of upscale Italian, I will be returning to Monarch 10 times out of 10. As for Carbone, I may return if they have a "coupon" evening, otherwise...
  16. Lidig8r

    Dallas | Italian

    Going to Carbone on Friday night with another couple. Reservation at 10:45. YIKES! Here is the dinner menu: https://carbonedallas.com/menus/2022/Carbone Dallas Dinner 3 3.28.22.pdf Will try to remember to take photos. Any recommendations as to what to order?
  17. What the fuck happened to the Surly I used to know? Where's the spirit? Where's the guts, huh? This could be the greatest night of our lives ... but you're gonna let it be the worst. Oh, we're afraid to believe we are gonna kick their ass Bluto. We might get in trouble! Well just kiss me ass from now on! Not ME! I'm not gonna take this! Bama? DEAD!
  18. Should I have used, "Sweet Blue Jumpin' Mohammad on a unicyle" instead?
  19. Old Man Rant Mini-Rant time alert: What the blue hell does "dimes" have to do with assists? An assist is not 10 points. An assist is not a coin. Is it just a term taken from football (where it makes little sense as well) by some hipster, idoit announcer to make him look cool, or hip? We really just cant say "assist?" Jebus. Now... GET OFF MY LAWN DAMMIT~!
  20. Lidig8r

    Dallas | Italian

    Este. Went there tonight. Dress up and they treat you even better. The food is incredible (and my SO is a bit of a food snob). Perhaps it is because I look a bit like an "oldz,", dressed up in the navy suit, bow tie, bald ass head, joking around with the wait staff ... the concierge of Monarch came up to us, started a great conversation, when we were through with our dinner, escorted us upstairs to their more informal bar, came up twice to check up. Oh, some hipster tried to get in with his ball cap on ... backwards of course ... the people at the the check in desk said, "uh. Sport, you need to leave that cap here with us." Food is excellent (on a level with the best Italian food in NYC), great atmosphere. Go and enjoy a 2 to 3 hour dining experience. Then ... go home and dog fuck the hell out of your SO! Lid! OUT!
  21. Are those burnt orange, Longhorn head cufflinks Coach is throwing down?
  22. So, this past year, UNC loses to: Tennessee by 17; Kentucky by 29; Miami by 28; Wake Forest by 24; Duke by 20; Pittsburgh by 9; Virginia Tech by 13 (on March 11); And are now playing for the national championship. Imma thinkin that UNC wins by 4 points or fewer... or Kansas wins by about 20.
  23. My juvenile sense of humor found this amusing.
  24. Well hell ... what a past few weeks it has been. I got a call on Thursday, Nov. 10 from the wife a very good friend of mine. Our children were in Indian Princess together. So, we have known each other for about 25 years. The day before, he went to his mom's house, saw his step nephew apparently trying to break into the house. Goes up to him. (The dude is 24 years old and is a body builder). A fight breaks out. A gunshot is heard by his wife. My friend slumps over. Shot in the head. The next morning, he is pulled off life support. Fortunately, a number of his organs were donated. 10 hours before, I had 2 doctor friends of mine send text messages to me asking if I had read the just released article from what they thought was a well-respected professional. This doctor opined that severe and enduring eating disorders could be terminal and those patients should be allowed to have physician assisted suicide. Good Lord. My daughter fought until her last breath. Tuesday, March 15, my SO gets a text from a long time client of hers. His wife who was fighting cancer, apparently went to UT Southwestern for routine treatment. AS I understand it, an embolism developed and went to her brain. Although they got her heart started, the damage was done. On March 16, she was removed from life support. The next day, March 17, I am standing up in St. Thomas Aquinas Church giving the eulogy for my dear friend. What do you say when their loss is so senseless? Fortunately, he had left a colorful history of his life on Facebook and in text messages to me. And sometimes, we are merely conduits for a greater message that those in such pain need. The circle becomes full tomorrow. On March 24, i am being awarded the 2022 Ruth Sharp Altshuler Community Advocate Award by Mental Health America. When I look back on past recipients, it is like a "who's who" of mental health providers.And I have done nothing yet to deserve this. I really have no choice and am being directed to this work by forces I am not meant to understand. The following day starts the real battle with a treatment center based in California and operating in St. Louis. Therapists supplying alcohol and illegal drugs to patients. Sexual contact with patients. Destruction of evidence. I currently represent 7 people who were hurt up there. 6 employees were fired. A multi-billion dollar private equity company owns them. They have one of the most powerful law firms representing them. And what do I have? The passion from a child dying compelling me to continue on this path? I don't know why i am writing this. Other than this is a good place to vent. No... more so than that. Despite all of the ass whippings on here. the amount of compassion and intelligence and understanding can be truly inspiring. So, Gentlemen, go give your kids a big hug. Tell them you love them. Embrace life. Embrace love. Turn obstacles into opportunities.
  25. He looks like Professor Fate from "The Great Race" to me ... has that Snidely Whiplash twirl his 'stache look about him.
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