Wow theres a lot of guys here with potty related phobias... I use to care like you walking all over the 40 acres to find the golden toilet, carrying this behavior into adulthood...and then I got old and stopped giving a damn provided it was reasonably clean. If someone else is in the bathroom taking a dump, I still proceed to the nearest open stall. The hell with walking up another flight of stairs just to see if it’s safe to shit . If the middle stall is the only one open and there are wingmen to the left and right, it don’t matter. Bombs away. If said wingmen have fouled the air, just quarterback the play. “All right boys, if you’ve dropped a load, do us all the courtesy and send it down the pipes. Lift up on the lever (dual flush) to avoid the accidental bidet”.. Folks generally comply and are apologetic. It may freak out some, those people will finish immediately and bug out. Speaking of bidets, I love mine and will always try to go before I leave the house. However, contingency plan for a clean under carriage while at work is a wet paper towel. Again, don’t care if anyone else is in there and sees me get a paper towel, fold it in quarters and dampen it under the faucet. If I had Mexican food the night before, I might even get two. They know what’s up; it’s no mystery. A few have started to follow suit. If they continue on the path, others will witness as well and soon we’ll have a movement. You see it just takes a change in your mindset to overcome your potty phobias. Focus on the mission, ignore the distractions, take control of the environment, take care of businesses, lead by example, and gtfo.