So youâre saying your family sucks at being a family? Gotcha. Or maybe itâs just you they wouldnât do shit for? Itâs not a lecture douche drip, itâs just the way I was raised and so were a lot of people. Taking care of the older family members is expected. It honestly would never occur to me to charge an elderly family member for a service Iâm able to provide. My BIL? Sure, but Iâd probably give him a deal and I donât even like that asshole. My grandparents or a widowed aunt in her 70âs? Not so much⊠And I canât imagine that you have teeth, and definitely not a fireplace thatâs not a 55 gallon drum out back of whatever bedbug infested storage unit you live in for that matter, so I can easily see where your siblings wouldnât come into play. But by all means continue to say âFuck you, you figure it outâ to the old people in your family. Probably goes a long way in explaining why youâre such a miserable little fuck.