Does anyone have good solutions for monitoring kids' texts on an Android phone?
My wife has not been happy with the Gabb phone my 12 year old daughter has. She (wife) is pushing for a Pinwheel because it has text monitoring built in, but I don't really want to shell out for a kid-specific device that is locked into it's own OS and set of apps. (Partly because we're only halfway through the 24 month contract on the Gabb phone that my wife didn't realize was a 24 month contract, but that's another story...)
I'm trying to setup my old Pixel 5 for her and I like most of what you can do with Google Family Link. Part of why I like it is we can still give access to any apps we want, like Netflix and such, without worrying about social media apps. Having that flexibility is nice for traveling and things like that. I've got it locked down where she can't install apps or even visit sites without permission. The time limits and locking are great for what we need to do. But there's no text monitoring and my wife is really set on this for some reason.
I've been playing with Qustodio also, but it has limitations. It captures SMS messages, but won't log MMS or any message when Google Chat Features are enabled. I'm not sure if there's a good way around that without going to something like Pinwheel. I'm leaning towards dumping the data plan, limiting her to SMS and sticking with Family Link and (maybe) Qustodio for now. That would work for me, but the wife is really hung up on having a real-time feed of all texts (even if the kid deletes some).
Any suggestions?
PS - @Jerry Callo @Damor thanks for sharing the contracts above, those seem like a good idea.