I have issues with him stating and restating the problem - but just throwing more money at the problem is rarely the best option. In the interim, families have choices to make.
My youngest just turned 16 and was told by her coach (they can't talk to them until June 15th) that she's on UT's "radar"......whatever the hell that means? It was good enough to solicit squeals and yells. We both know it's a VERY big stretch. I know she can get in, but she wants to play at the college level, so Texas probably isn't in the cards and we're all fine with that.
My son went another direction. He was always told he will have a skin in the game financially. Even if we hit the powerball tomorrow, he’s paying for a portion of his school – either directly or with loans.
Problem set. His solution – he’s going ROTC. HIS solution, not mine. He vetted the options, and he wants to go this route. He’s going supply chain logistics at the biz school @ AR. For that field of study, AR is as competitive as most. He spoke with a graduated 1st lieutenant who went the same route (SCL) and is doing this in the army now. Completing that degree, coming out as a commissioned officer, and then having the real-world application of his craft, his stock could not be higher.
Military is struggling mightily as well filling billets. So few applicants, and those that come, struggle so much with the fitness standards. My kids a former soccer player turned BJJ/gym rat. This year he put on 25lbs of muscle and still has a decent gas tank from his soccer days. When he told the recruiter, then officer all this they were excited ( I was on the call). Barring him bombing the ASVAB, he’ll have options. Woman that works for me, her husband went the same route. ROTC @ AR, then went “big” Army. Artillery. He was plucked up quickly by the private sector immediately after he left active duty.
There are still tons of options out there for kids if they put in the effort to still get a good education and not exit drowning in loans