I've been through some hard shit. I firmly believe in avoiding the pitfall of suffering comparison. I've seen other struggle too, and we've all been through various issues.
For me, it's finding A, yes capital, A reason to fight on against the demons, struggles and issues are plaguing ME. Once I had that I started building THE reasonS.
There is no easy answer and sometimes, when I am not expecting it the struggles sneak up on me. It's scary and frustrating at the same time. To think Ive moved on, gotten better, improved, healed and grown.
Yet, there they are again. Wtf.. so Derka and any others i can only tell you what I do. Use or dismiss it as you see fit...
I refocus on A thing. THE thing. I put one foot forward, I make sure I appreciate all I do have, then I take another step with my focus on A thing. THE THING.
I'm not willing to share my thing, but I don't think it is relevant anyway cause mine won't be the same as yours.
Texas is doing pretty good in football. I'm hanging with my family who's largely healthy. My motorcycles are running well. My dog is crazy, healthy and happy. I've still got my cabin and my land. Got some cash in the bank.
Some things.. some good things.
If nothing else, anyone reading who is suffering please know.. you aren't alone. You just aren't.