I won't speak to your other points as there is certainly potential validity.
I am purely addressing the underlined, specifically the bold.
Forgoing the why, Bibi's plan relative to Iran has been clearly short term from the start. 2 weeks.
Bibi is well aware that the war with Iran is destabilizing for the region and in particular the OG markets. While the rest of the OG and ME are willing to step back, it won't be for long and Bibi knows it.
Strike while the iron is hot. There is clear reasoning why, from onset, Bibi has set the time line for this event. He knows OG money isn't letting this go on long.
Whatever happens will happen quickly. Primarily because of OG money/influence but also because the US leadership isn't known to be long term planners either. On top of of all that, the longer the play the more likely dirty nukes, outside extremist and broadly speaking threats to western countries increase.
You said it in your last sentence, neither are capable of thinking about tomorrow. OG is... they want it done quick, Bibi has said 2 weeks, Trump will, like he does everything, move quickly because he has the attention span of gnat, and we are having a different discussion next week.