My wife owns a small women's clothing boutique. She is constantly bringing home clothes from the store that she either has to mail out, get altered or dry cleaned, or return to the designer. Every time she takes all the hangers in the closet to hang them on her little hanging rack she uses. Now, every time I take my laundry into the closet to fold, I have maybe 2 hangers left.
I've asked her calmly and politely many times and offered to buy her as many hangers as she needs from Amazon. Yet every week I have no hangers. Now when I confront her about it, instead of asking nicely I tell her (without raising my voice) to stop taking my hangers and to buy some if she needs them. She then starts acting like I'm OJ with some uncontrollable temper and am about to snap at any second. That makes me 10X more ragey than the hangers. I would rather her look me in the eye and say "fuck you, I'll use your hangers whenever I damn well please" than start trying to reverse the situation and act like the victim.