Flawed judgements on your character? Lol. I'm an old black guy that spent his whole professional life in work environments with little to no diversity. I'm an expert. I've experienced just about every kind of racism there is. I know exactly what kind of racist you are. You watched Boyz in the Hood once and Fox News and think you have Black People all sorted. You're the guy that tells a Black person they are so well spoken and walks off thinking it was a compliment. You're the guy that owns a tree trimming company, sees my and my father in law(white guy) in the driveway, and goes up to him and starts trying sell him on a job. You're the kind of guy who asks me what college I attended and when I say The University of Texas, there is a slight pause before the conversation resumes. You're the type pf guy who when he sees a Black dude pulled over with a cop car behind he you wonder what he did. You're the type of guy who goes to a job interview, and when the Black dude comes out to greet you, you are looking over his shoulder to see when the boss is coming.
That's the kind of person you are, and that's why you cannot see what Kirk said is wrong.