You seem confused. Let me help. There are a lot of fucking racists in this country. They are everywhere and have been pretending to hide behind the GOP policies but because Trump has no policies they are just running around trying to find something, anything to hide behind. This grasping on to anything is rightly seen by us as weird, stupid, and nonsensical. You just need to make peace with the fact that a large chunk of this country doesn't want other demographics to infringe upon what they have, and as long as a certain party is dog-whistling against that they will always vote for them. You think these southern, suburban, white women don't want women's rights? . Let their Susan get pregnant and they will be the first one sneaking over the border to get an abortion. More importantly, they don't want little Susan bringing home a Tyrone or Edgar.
It's always been and will always be about keeping other people where they belong, and the sooner you accept that's what it is about, the better your mental health will be. Every election cycle, for as long as we've been alive, there has been fear-mongering about some type of brown people. It's the reason Canadians could cross the border with a simple ID but no Mexicans are allowed. It's the reason that in 2024 Mississippi, the southern state with the highest population of black people, is STILL the poorest state in the union. I know, it's hard to accept that our friends and family are racists. It's even harder when some of your friends and family hate their own race.
I actually know you already know this, but it helps to get a reminder every once and awhile to hit the reset button. Just remember, these idiots truly want to be democrats, but we stole the party from them by allowing ethnic people equal rights. So they are forced to vote against their own interests for the protection of their schools, neighborhoods, and daughters' vaginas.