Every year my Dad, brother, three cousins and two of their friends from Portland all go up to a family cabin in MT on the Idaho border about 60 miles south of Canada. Some of you may know Coeur d'Alene, it's in that general area of Sandpoint/Clark River. Anyway, we have done it yearly for the last 5-6 years , we are all in our 50's , save my Dad who is in mid 70's. Without a doubt, it's the most therapeutic long weekend of the year. Between the war stories, butt stories, jokes, life/current events, copious amounts of beer , weed , cigars, we have the best time. Work in a little fishing, camp maintenance , fire pit management, poker and grilling, without that trip, there would be a void for sure.
B/c of that trip, I initiated 2 other group text threads and have been able to re-connect with different groups of about 15 friends, one of which we have started a ATX game watching annual trip.
There is loneliness in this country, but I truly believe you get out of it what you put in. Being a friend, lending an ear, participating in life is action oriented. The only thing that is going to separate who you are today, from who you will be in 10 years is the people you associate with and the books you read.