I started drinking again 10 days ago. Fucking chronic pain. Was struggling and pretty damned desperate. When I posted about ending up in the ER due to a combination of sleeping pills and mucho whiskey, both @BearSchlong and @pch said I could message them if I needed help….and I needed help. Theirs was not an idle offer. Within a day, I’d established a separate relationship with each of these gentlemen. They shared their experiences, made some absolutely brilliant suggestions to help me get on the path to sobriety, and followed up to check on my progress. In the middle of this, my wife (who thought I had quit drinking) found my bottle of whiskey. Instead of kicking me to the curb, which I deserved, she said, “What do we need to do to fix this?”. I sweater gawd, I won the wife lottery. My wife knows I’ve reached out to people on Surly and she’s all for it. If you’re in a bad place because of your alcohol consumption, there are people on this thread who can help you and >want< to help you. I thought I could beat this by myself and I was wrong. But, I/WE will beat this! Now, I’m 5 days sober. It’s a start.