no.
that's also a racist red-herring.
the platonic/ideal condition, as i've been trying to learn, is to be impartial as possible, race-conscious, culturally aware, and try to use that information to make the best decision you can.
by race-conscious, i mean that in a positive context, but it can also make me weirdly self-conscious in a way that i'm still not comfortable with, but that's okay.
i used to say "i don't see color" or similar shit like that. it was racist. of course i saw color. of course people see my whiteness. of course i see that hot girl over there and the sweathog dude on the harley. we make judgments every day.
the key, i'm learning, is mindfulness. asking yourself critical questions all the time. it sucks and it's hard. i get tired of doing it.
that's why i asked you if you think before you post. i haven't always thought before posting, and this is definitely the board to shoot from your hip, so i get it.
but where you fall down is looking at a work in progress, seeing an improvement, and declaring it done.
race relations will never be done. black people have shit to think about also. we all have shit to think about. that's part of being a human.
also part of being human, sadly, is the casting out, either metaphorically or literally, those who look or act or believe differently than you.
i'm just telling you that is what you are doing even if you do not realize it. like knows like. i used to do it all the time.