I”ll chime in. I do consider myself a collector of brown spirits and have a few similar rules as well: 1. I have what I have due to time spent building relationships on the retail and on-premise side of things; 2. I will never pay secondary pricing for a bottle at retail or purchase from the secondary market; 3. If the opportunity presents itself, I will purchase two bottles, one to open now and one to open later; 4. All bottles will be opened, shared among friends or gifted at some point; 5. I have recently started trading bottles with bourbon friends to fill holes in the collection.
As far as what to open and when? Everything will be opened at one point, it depends on the company and the occasion. I’ll open the latest release of Old Fitz with friends but will share the Stitzel juice with the more seasoned drinker.
There are lots of folks new to the whiskey game and I find that most chase labels and some will horde bottles to flip. I get that most see these allocated or hard-to-get bottles as currency, but these guys that flip bottles for profit are no friends of mine.