I'm not saying those are awful things, but damn that is just treading water at best. The FMLA is woefully inadequate. The moderation of the stimulus — reducing the spending that economists said we needed and substituting tax cuts for some of the spending — is what choked the recovery and denied Obama the credit for his (muted) success, leading to years of Republican gains in Congress and then Trump (including in Michigan, where Dems saved the auto industry!). After 16 years of Dem leadership over good/improving economies, we have ever-higher income inequality, and both Dems were replaced by Republicans. Green energy investment is abysmal and being rolled back under Trump at a time when the climate crisis is worse than ever. And I don't see how LGBTQ rights is even remotely attributable to moderate Dems. It happened in spite of them, and they were the last Dems to jump aboard the train after "evolving."
Meanwhile Republicans have gotten massive tax cuts enacted over and over again over the last 40 years. Massive military spending and disastrous wars. Abortion rights greatly restricted across the country to the point where many places have no access. Extensive gerrymandering to increase their power while holding only a minority of voters. Massive deregulation across every federal agency. Decades of Supreme Court rulings.
Republicans have achieved major structural change in every facet of government while we got... unpaid maternity leave. It's no wonder we keep losing. We need to return to the Democratic Party of the New Deal, the Civil Rights Act, Social Security, Medicare, and liberal Supreme Court rulings. That Democratic Party dominated American politics until the 1980s.