the us averages 30 midair collisions annually killing ~75
us average for near-midair collisions is 450 but that of course does not include incidents not reporter - and there are many - i've watched 3 from my backyard - all 3 involved a commerical jet and a single-engine prop - in all 3 the jet was too low
ai results:
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tl/dr: commercial incidents are rare, general aviation incidents happen every day - you don't hear about them unless you watch the local news - and they only report the incidents in their broadcast market - and the military has more accidents with more deaths per year than general aviation - but you don't hear about it unless you watch national news, cnn, or there is spectacular video and your local news shows it
bonus tl/dr: military aviation is hard
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as an example:
c130 first flight 1958
2350 built
350+ hull losses worldwide, of those 194 in us mililtary, not all crashes, ~70 in nam, some in other combat situations, but most were not
the first hull loss was shot down by 4 migs in an incident you've never heard of because it was on a nsa sigint mission 'on the armenian border'
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_accidents_and_incidents_involving_the_Lockheed_C-130_Hercules