feel about the same as OP. The (mostly fake) zealot politicians are pumping theocracy ideas to win votes. Just saying 'Bible' is the justification to start taking away rights/protections form groups that differ from them. the party of small government is dead set on legislation to forcibly enact their set of minority beliefs on the majority of Americans.
Raised in the church, baptized of my own free will during the fervor of a summer church camp at like 11 or 12 think. Cruised along going semi-regularly to church; moreso after the kids were born. Really, the rise of Trumpkins using religion to further bigotry, handmaid tales shit and now all the blatant calls for a no-shit theocracy have caused me to do a complete 180 on religion and cringe away from wanting to associate with it. heck, i really liked the First United Methodist church we fell into. very progressive, embracing every community (lol at all the FUMC churches splitting off 'cause they hate gays).
We sorta mock all the stupid religious shit we see and our kids pick up on it. I am sure their grandparents are praying for their souls and have even had the in-laws trying to sway the kids into asking that we take them to church every Sunday. We tend to go on Easter/Christmas and a few other times a year. don't quite tithe, but still give a decent chunk each year to the church.
It just boils down to 'How hard is it to just worship what you want to without using your religion to restrict my freedoms?' There never was a WAR OF CHRISTMAS but it looks like there needs to be a war on Christians to keep a theocracy from happening.