Yep I have asthma as well, which is why I stayed home until I was vaxxed and boosted. It's why I raged against the members of my family who didn't want to vaccinate and for a long time felt exactly as you do. I even called people both selfish and unpatriotic who were refusing to vaccinate, and I still 100% believe that. But at some point I realized that I'm not ever going to get everyone (or even most people) to do the right thing simply because it's the right thing, and it isn't my job to police them anyway. I have to let people make their own mistakes and if those mistakes kill them, well, they had the same opportunity that I had to get vaccinated and reduce their risk. Once I got myself ok with that, I was able to give myself permission to go back to living my life again.
And yes it's not over, but it will never be over until this thing mutates into another form of the common cold, which it's only going to be able to do if it continues to circulate. Since we never had the will to stop this virus completely, the best course of action now is to let it continue to run wild and continue to get less severe as it looks for the equilibrium it needs to stay in circulation. Staying home forever, nationwide lockdowns, hell even getting people to wear masks are all non-starters here in the US. Those things simply will not happen, so it's not over from a death and destruction standpoint, but it's over from the standpoint of getting the general public to band together and do something about it. The only thing the general public seems willing to do at this point is nothing, which means to keep letting it mutate and hope that it keeps following the trend and heading more and more to the common cold/influenza territory in severity. And if a bunch of morons hit the FAFO lottery on the journey, all the better.