I haven't thought about this for quite a while, but your observation brought it back to mind.
My step-dad visited me the night he died. He was completely gold, didn't look like clothed, but he wan't naked either. He said everything was fine, and the lives we lead make perfect sense viewed from there. He said that the pain we survivors felt, that pain is not for him, but for ourselves, and that once we realize that, we can let go of it.
He told me there was so much he had to do and learn, and that reincarnation is a choice, not a certainty. Everything, even things we are horrified by, are inconsequential when viewed from there. Said he wouldn't be coming back to us again. and he turned and walked away, disappearing over the horizon.
One other thing he told me was that we should understand that Worry and Prayer are exactly the same Thing. People who want to pray but can't, aren't doing it right.
Worry is just imagining that Bad Things are going to happen.
Prayer is just imagining that Good Things are going to happen.
Now you know. Whenever you realize you're imagining Bad Things, just flip that mental switch from Bad to Good.