My last post in this thread
Derka acts like I was going nuts personally bullying him. I was not. He was reporting anything I posted that was tangentially related to him to blacklabs.
The post that apparently was going to get me banned was him saying that there’s no examples of mens coaches acting like Kim Mulkey and getting away with it with little criticism. I said “ever heard of Chris Beard?” That’s it. That’s all I posted.
Thats not a bullying attack on Derka. Thats a valid and relevant example of an asshole male coach who doesn’t get criticized like she does. I didn’t insult him, attack him, call him a name, etc. I simply disagreed with him.
Before I knew of Derkas issues I 100% was a jerk to him. For that I apologize for a 2nd time today. But I promise I have been bending over backwards to not trigger him for at least a year now.
The last post on the last page by KaiserSoze summarizes my perspective on the situation very well.
I truly feel bad about this matter. I apologize to the guy. I promise to keep him on ignore and not badmouth him.
I encourage him to simply hit the ignore button and never be bothered by my posts again. Maybe if he does that, takes responsibility for his behavior, and nicely apooogizes to immamac then imma will let him stay on the board.
Blacklabs clearly wants to help Derka. I honestly do too. But he also has to help himself by taking responsibility for his behavior.
That’s my final post on the matter. I find it all sad and silly and regrettable. My apologies for my role in it.