This will be my first and last post on the topic.
Last night, you posted a bulleted list of some of your principles. One of them was having the right to do whatever you'd like in your personal space so long as it doesn't negatively impact others. An example was the discussion of German polka oompah music being played loudly at night, bothering neighbors.
PAUSE: Now, please reflect on that for a moment.
You state that when you call Caitlyn "Bruce," you're intention is only to insult her. And yet, you continue to insist on stating it publicly (i.e., loudly) in this forum in the presence of someone who has repeatedly stated that you're offending her (as have others who have been trying to help you grasp what you're doing). In other words, you're continuing to blast your German polka oompah music even though you only "intended" to disturb one of your neighbors (but not the whole neighborhood).
You defend yourself by saying, "Well, she's not the intended target of my insult," as if it absolves you from using a known and widely recognized slur against an entire group of people. It is EXACTLY the same concept (as others have pointed out) as calling one Black person with whom you're pissed an N-word in front of an audience that includes other Black people.
How would you react when being called out on that behavior?
Would you quickly apologize and say something like, "Shit, I'm sorry I blurted out the N-word. It just slipped out." Or would you continue and dig in by saying, "I'm not racist! I just really wanted to hurt his feelings because that's the quickest and cheapest shortcut that I know of to emotionally damage a person that looks like him. Sure, I'm pissing off other Black people during the process, but fuck them for being so woke and sensitive and shit."
If you're still cool with that argument and CONTINUE TO DIG IN, then you are truly and remarkably a tremendous asshole.
Look, my advice is to insult someone over their behavior and not their appearance, like how they're a fucking hypocrite and traitor to others like them. Do it with precision and not a fucking shotgun blast where a bunch of others catch strays.