I've worked as a CPS lawyer for almost 20 years, and have been involved in foster care the entire time. I've tried to stay out of this thread because I knew it was just going to piss me off. There are too many people who have strong opinions on things they do not even come close to understanding, and a particularly virulent strain who simply see this issue as yet another partisan football. That disgusts me. Bonus points to the folks who immediately pivoted to abortion.
About half my career was in NY and the other half in Texas. Very different states politically and with somewhat different foster care systems. There are things NY does well that Texas does not and things Texas does well that NY does not. I'm not saying political policies have no effect - obviously they do - but the solution to this problem is not primarily political.
To answer a few questions I saw upthread:
- Texas does allow same sex adoptions. The link that was posted came from an advocacy group and was not a good faith representation of the issue.
- It is essentially free to adopt within the foster care system. Foster parents get a monthly subsidy and adoptive parents get a subsidy until the child turns 18. The home study and other required parts of the adoption are handled by the CPA (child placing agency). Adoptions are expensive when they are private arrangements outside the foster care system. The upside of adopting outside the system is that you do not have to foster first and run the risk of family reunification, which is always the initial goal of a foster care placement (except in very rare instances)
- I am not particularly looking to engage Sheeeit's post, as it is nothing short of batshit insane and full of made up assertions not connected to reality. But lest anyone read that and be misled - there are most certainly newborns in foster care. There may be a waiting list to adopt newborns outside the system, but I can assure you plenty of newborns are taken into foster care.
- orphanage is a bit of an old fashioned term, but there are most definitely residential group homes all over the state.
BearSchlong - you/your wife have my respect. Same to F250 and others (apologies, but I don't remember all the names) who have stepped up and put skin the game. The biggest need for any system is to have good people doing a very difficult (and often thankless) job.