so there was some extended family in town this past week and i had dinner with them on thurs night. one couple, early 80's, they are known in the fam to be big gop-turned-trumpers, so usually best not to engage, but sometimes i can't resist. i rarely see them and i ask for so little.
so i'm listening in, and family members i'm closer with are very excited because their daughter, who graduated early from northwestern, has been kinda stuck in sacramento in some govt job waiting on something better, finally got an offer she liked in dc. so she's in govt, and she's thinking about a job offer in dc. seems reasonable. her mom is very excited about it.
then the aunt weighs in. "oh, you've heard how dc is now, right? it's just so terrible there, so dangerous, i would tell her to wait for something better." i said, "terrible, like crime?" she said yes. i said, "you mean like chicago and san francisco?" she said, "yes, exactly, she shouldn't move there."
she had been in california for almost 24 hours and hadn't been mugged yet, but i don't know how the rest of her trip went.