i don't feel attacked, i think this is a fair question.
first off, i pay my fair share and then some. i subscribe to everything, including a live/cable option (directv stream) which i know a lot of people have gone away from. i go to movies in the theater, and have paid a premium for nice, la theaters since back when assigned seats were a new feature. i also won't see a movie without popcorn and snacks, which i always purchase from concessions. movies fuel the entire industry, and concessions fuel theaters, so $16 popcorn buckets don't bother me.
over the years, i have used torrents when it is necessary. i don't download anything available on a mainstream platform like prime, netflix, hulu, peacock, apple, disney, and so forth. i use it when a movie is unavailable and i'm trying to show it to someone who hasn't seen it (usually my wife). keep in mind this is a film that i not only likely paid to see in a theater, but in many cases, have also previously purchased the dvd. but like i said, we no longer own a dvd player and i have no idea where my old movies even are.
i also used to use torrents when i needed movies for travel before the days of being able to use a streaming platform on my laptop. much easier to have a file than tote around a bunch of dvds, especially when you live on a bus. though we did buy plenty of seasons of tv in their old school boxed sets, like the office, lost, 30 rock, etc.
but the biggest factor is whether i even have a choice with something i'm looking to watch. in many cases, there are no other options. i downloaded max dugan returns a couple months ago, which is available pretty much nowhere. same with the color of money, and many other 70's/80's movies. if they existed somewhere, i wouldn't need torrents.
in the case of my nephew, he's not going to buy amc+, so this is a way to introduce him to "prestige" tv and what i believe is the greatest drama of all time. with this experience, he will (hopefully) seek out other high-end productions, both tv and film, and that will affect his life, just as mine was affected as a teenager when i watched butch cassidy, jaws, the sting, the godfather, and all the president's men with my dad. in turn, he will spend his money on things actually available to him and not relegated to a fringe (at best) streaming platform. this is a situation where if not for me and wetransfer, he would simply go without. i cannot allow that.
but here's the sad truth of it all. when you pay $3.79 on amazon prime for an old movie, that money is not ever getting to the writers or actors, or even the producers. it just isn't. that money will go onto the amazon ledger and pay for storage, servers, attorneys, executives, until they turn to 3rd party sourcing companies that purchased libraries from obsolete production companies like vestron or orion and say, sorry, here's your three cents.
i also will download british shows that aren't available yet on us tv or britbox/acorn, like catastrophe. but once i like something, i'll make sure everyone in my life knows to watch it on whatever platform carries it, which i believe was prime.
*i don't use torrents to download first-run movies or pirated home video shit, in case that part was unclear. it's not even about the money, it's about the quality. fuck all that.