Imma wants some more discussion on the business board so I figure Id give everyone an update on my (sort of) FIRE status since it will be 1 year on Aug 12th since I quit full time work and went down to about 6-7 shifts per month. So far, so good. In fact, I still think I work too much. I rarely if ever get bored when I am off and I just feel so much less stressed. Sunday nights have been an absolute treat. I dont dread Mondays anymore. Sports are much more enjoyable, especially Sunday and Monday night football. Ive been working out almost daily since I stopped full time work and the video game my brother and I and best friend are creating is coming along (somewhat nicely). Financially, we increased our nest egg about 13% since August 2023. About 10% due to gains in the market and 3% in terms of money we put in. And this is with us being quite conservative in our stock/MM allocation. In fact, I am starting to believe I waited 1 or 2 years too long to make this move.
Issues that I have overcome have been 1. not saving/putting nearly the same amount of money in Vanguard as I used to. I save a fraction of what I did BUT I have allowed myself to spend more on wants and other more frivolous things like a nice $1k gaming laptop that I never would have bought before. That was a mental hurdle I had to jump over. And 2. my wife getting used to me being home more. At first she kept questioning when I would go back to full time, but now she actually is put off when I go in to work because of all the stuff I do when Im home to help her out (groceries, taking/picking up up our kid from school, cleaning, general errands etc). I keep telling her she needs to go part time as well but she isnt there yet. She is getting closer however. All she needs is a job that makes her 25k a year as that is her yearly part of our household expenses. She absolutely can consult part time but whatever. I dont push too hard.
My next change will be working less than I do now ( going down to 1 shift a week) while still increasing our nest egg each year, albeit much more gradual, The mental hurdle here is I will begin to actually take out a small amount of funds yearly. So far I have estimated that once I go down to 1 shift weekly, I will need to take about 7-8k a year to supplement. That is going to be a tough one for me and it is still most likely 2 years away before I make that move.
All in all, no regrets what so ever. Well, I know now I waited too long to do this so that is my only regret. I hope some of you jump in soon. The water is nice and warm. Life is too short not to.