I’ve only seen the movie and read articles on this so don’t know what the books say. Lol at people bashing the Tuohy’s for helping him at all. They didn’t have to do anything. It’s facts that he was better off in their care than out of their care as a high school student. Who gives a shit if their motive was to get him to Ole Miss, he was still much better off under their roof. He also was not chosen at random from the thousands of kids in Memphis that likely need help. He went to their kid’s private school, that’s why he was chosen. I’m sure he stood out among the student population there in more ways than one.
The Tuohy’s may be self centered assholes but that doesn’t necessarily mean that they were in this case. There’s any easy explanation for why they would call it an adoption instead of a conservatorship in the public realm, the vast majority of the public had no idea what a conservatorship was before this story came out. Either way they had a legal obligation to him.
In the end all that really matters is how they treated him. Did they truly treat him as family? Did they do what was best for him? Did they use their position as his conservators to take advantage of him? Those are the only questions that matter in this story. So far Oher’s side of the story is all over the place while the Tuohys have a pretty solid story. We will find out if that holds up.