I have zero problem with poor officiating as long as it is consistent. What pisses me off is when officials simply don't know the rules (this happens more in lower level high school games) or when rules are not applied consistently.
There's no way in hell that Thornton's roughing the passer should have been called but not the one against Casey. Thornton tackled Sanders while surrounded by other players, you had to be looking for that call to make it there. Casey on the other hand was tackled 5 yards back from everyone else directly in front of 2 officials, to miss it there is unacceptable. The lack of reviewing plays that could hurt OU when the conference reviews almost everything is unacceptable. Having 2 holding penalties called against the TCU offensive line the last 2 years get picked up is unacceptable. Having an official who intentionally made contact with Charlie Strong so that he could throw a flag on Strong still being employed by the conference is unacceptable.
Holdings, false starts, pass interference, etc are going to be missed and sometimes quite often. When those are quickly and sometimes very questionably called against Texas while often ignored when committed by Texas' opponents is when it becomes a problem.