This board is filled with guys who will step in to help the misses out. One of the things that makes this board so great.
I respect your decision, but all cancer flavors are not the same. Every guy on this board will probably have prostate cancer in their bodies in their 60s or 70s, and will die before it does anything. Again, all due respect, but maybe you should get a second opinion or at least go to someplace like MDA and see your options before you decide on the most invasive procedure with the highest percentage significant side effects.
Either way, you have this. But again, if you are going to have surgery, make sure you have the best goddamn surgeon in the country who’s done 1000 of these procedures, and not just the guy or gal at your local hospital they assigned you to. I admit that me sharing this is largely due to the fact that my local hospital surgeon wanted to get me like a fish to cure my liver cancer when it turned out I did not have liver cancer.
The best cancer care I ever received was none at all.