Not me. But even my not attractive ass could manage to get laid with a couple dozen different women.
But getting laid involved some work, as no woman ever mistook young me for Brad Pitt or a millionaire. But I had unwarranted confidence - and there was a subset of women who thought that “nice” and “ funny” and “smart” was an acceptable trade-off (at least for a shorter time period) than really good looking or successful.
My youngest son, on the other hand, always has a swooning female in his life as a gf - and always has lots of female friends. As soon as he un-girlfriends himself, one of those female friends steps up to the plate and tells him they always had a crush on him and so they start dating. I have no idea about my dad’s game, but as far as my son I can say that whatever success he has with the ladies obviously skipped a generation..
His politics are very woke/progressive, but he likes hunting and fishing and trucks and playing bass/guitar in a Neil Young cover band. The main trait I see in him is that he works very hard at maintaining relationships with a large number of people, and is always seeing friends and doing a wide number of social events with them. He does not sit at home in his mom’s basement playing video games all day and watching porn. He is out living his life and being friends with a wide variety of people who have a wide variety of interests. And his friends have a wide variety of physical appearance and occupations/hobbies. The buddies he goes herping in the swamp, looking for snakes or not the guy he plays music with.
Put more simply, he is interested in others, which makes others interested in him. He is accepting of others with differences, and so he is accepted.