About a week before I got married in a six-minute Methodist wedding ceremony, I had the brilliant idea to call someone at the Catholic church to see if I needed to fill out some form so I, a Catholic, could get permission to get married with the Methodists. I called a Msgr. Botik at Christ the King Catholic Church, and after I told him my situation, he told me I had to cancel the wedding.
"If you marry that woman, in that Church, you will be a heartbeat over hell." I told him I would get back to him. He actually called me and left voice messages the next few days.
Christ the King is the Park Cities church. I kicked myself for not calling Holy Trinity Catholic Church - the gay Catholic Church in Oak Lawn. I actually walked in and told a priest over there what the Monsignor had told me. "Oh that's Father Botik - he's pre-Vatican II. Get married, and then in a couple of years bring you wife by and maybe we can convert her."