Double stamping the used cymbal and use earplugs comments. If Iād been smarter when I was starting out Iād be able to hear better now and would have a little more cash in my wallet. But regardless, buy the best cymbals you can buy with your budget. For sabian - which is what I play - do not buy below their AAX line and for zildjian - donāt go below K line. And if you can go hit some used cymbals in a shop or even Guitar Center. Sometimes youāll find a no-name or very old cymbal that looks like shit but sounds great. The one thing I disagree with JJ on, which is very rare, is donāt polish your cymbalsā¦ Be proud of that sweet, sweet patina. The time youāll spend polishing she could be practicing! Final cymbals comment, for starters you might also look for a cymbal set - hats, crash and ride are all you need - and they often go on sale new. I also recommend finding the set she wants and look for a gently used one but if you go that route I wouldnāt buy from an individual. A used gear shop or drum shop will do a little quality control and theyāll be much more expert at shipping which for a layman is a huge pain in the ass to do. Also, watch some videos on drum tuning (especially snare). There is an art to it and it takes a lot of playing around to dial in your sound.