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  1. Capitalism is inherently exploitative. Sex work is work.
  2. Porn that doesn't...exploit the performers? Porn that doesn't pressure women into doing things that they wouldn't otherwise want to do sexually (being forced to deepthroat until vomiting, getting slapped around while being called a bitch or whore, multiple penetrations of the same orifice at the same time, etc. etc. etc.). Even if the porn is vanilla, the contracts, conditions, schedule, etc., can be exploitative. Modern pornography is so much more violent and fetishistic than it was when most of Surly was coming of age. Non-exploitative porn usually means that a woman is directing or producing it, and very often the performers are intimately involved in the production as well (and not just by performing, obv). It usually means there is more affirmation-centered dirty talk than degradation-centered dirty talk (definitely no use of slurs in the case of trans porn). It's usually more vanilla than kinky, but there are plenty of ways for kink to produced without exploiting the performers. It really isn't hard, but most straight men involved in producing porn (and seemingly the majority of those who consume porn) don't seem to care whether or not their porn is exploiting the performers, as long as they can bust their nut and/or make money. Everyone should critically think about the porn they consume.
  3. You must have missed every post where I refer to myself as a dyke. Women's fashion is inherently much more varied and interesting (and thus, imo, fun) than men's fashion, which is what y'all (the male majority of Surly) wear.
  4. Crossdressing is not an inherently erotic activity. There are plenty of men who just enjoy wearing women's clothing, because it's a lot more fucking fun than the shit y'all wear
  5. safe sex

    LBGTQ

    Austin Pride being in August is fucking bullshit
  6. safe sex

    LBGTQ

    FUCK OFF
  7. Party of Life, everyone!
  8. "I think a lot of trans women are turned on at the thought of themselves being women. Guess what? It doesn’t magically make them women," Seiter said. This is a man who watches a lot of trans porn (To be clear, non-exploitative trans porn owns and y'all should all give it a shot [statistically a lot of you have, and good for you, but own it])
  9. Pleasantly surprised by this. JBL is otherwise a pretty big shithead
  10. Did your parents keep a basket by the front door for everyone to put their keys in?
  11. I'd rather it be Neil Cavuto, but BB is the second best choice there
  12. safe sex

    LBGTQ

    I thought the transes gave a dominating advantage to whichever team cheated by allowing them to play? Was that not right? Was that just a crock of shit?
  13. I picked one up at the TCDP location on North Loop. Great shirt!
  14. Hitler was also a Person of the Year.
  15. Sounds fuckin' awesome, but I lost my hospital respirator, so I'm not sure I could handle the air quality in the car
  16. There are plenty of LGB people who are super transphobic. Plenty of them don't think the T should be included in the acronym. Though to be sure, excluding trans people from the "main" queer umbrella would do irreparable damage to the trans community
  17. It'd be neat to at least see it attempted to be enforced before we throw it out?
  18. Louder for the people in the back
  19. Just imagine being that person. Yikes
  20. And just as I am with abortion, I'm very much pro-choice when it comes to military service. I would imagine most people are
  21. Sure, but his Toadies will refer to him as THE President
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