Thanks. Good feedback.
I have more exposure to Nashville and Scottsdale and I'd agree with all that. The last time we were in Nashville, it was hot/humid AF. Laughed at the "margarita moms." For some reason, it and Scottsdale are ground zero for gal group trips.
As for Denver, I've heard it's a sausage fest, like you said. Buncha dudes wearing flannel or Patagonia. I'm married so that's not a huge issue but if I were single, hard no, which would lead to....
Scottsdale, hard yes on that front. Rich MILFy types everywhere. If I were 55+ and single, I'd set up shop there and latch on to some rich divorcee/widow. You're right about the property taxes, though. If the Zillow Machine is right, a $1.5 to $2M house is only about $2K in taxes...? Is it because they don't have a huge budget for schools due to everyone being someone's nana and papa? What part of Scottsdale did you live in?
If I were to do Denver, I'd live there for a few months in an AirBnb first. With the other two, I'm familiar enough already but Denver is interesting because there seems to be a love/hate thing going on.