I've noticed something on various Twitter and Reddit posts. It's that Gen Z is now obsessed with "body count." They think anything above 10 means you're whore or a porn star. (This is even a plot line on the "Sex Lives of College Girl" on Max, which isn't a terrible show.) Older people have pushed back saying numbers of 50-150 aren't terrible depending on age. (It's fairly easy to average 5-10 per year and extrapolate that over time.) I've trolled them and said if you're an adult man and are reasonably attractive and have decent people skills and at least an OK job, sex is easy to get. They get visibly angry at this.
On one thread, some dude weighed in and said he was an attractive 59 year old, attractive doctor and regularly has sex with 4-5 women every month. (If he's in a big city, that is believable.)
I've also noticed that the young women seem to have higher numbers than men, which is backed up by this stat in that link. A lot more young women are having sex than young men. That tells me the young men that are having sex are having sex with lots of girls and the incels are at 0.
A whopping 24% of males 22-34 had not had sex in 2022-2023 — up from 9% in 2013-15. For females, the number was 13%, up from 8%.