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troph

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  1. Two lesbians staring… no gawking. you’re right actually. A camera would have been much less intrusive.
  2. To be fair I’ve never had sex with someone I didn’t already know pretty well. But then I’ve never had to use apps to date. Mostly because they didn’t exist or when they did I found my lady through community volunteering.
  3. We were too close for a camera. But she walked in and completely disrupted both of our trains of thought and my wife chuckled as I just lost complete focus as I stared at her ass as she walked by us to sit down.
  4. Wife and I were at the Mexican restaurant bar the other day, it was Wednesday I think, game one of the Texas / tech WCWS… clearly this twosome was on a date at the bar and they were in our field of view right in front of us as we were sitting at a cocktail table right next to the bar. Long story short they started getting handsy so we assumed third date after some reasoning. Well they got a bit drunk and started talking us up, found out it was their first date. We left after the game, they had already left but we found them on a bench outside the restaurant just all over each other. Pretty sure she was giving something up that night. She was a legit 9 body and face wise. Late 20s he was mid 30s and I just thought wow I could not do this, shes at least giving him a blow job first date if not more. Fucking crazy.
  5. hook em
  6. Snakes, lifting heavy things and tall… you forgot the tall part, you’re fine, you don’t even have to deal with snakes and you’re good.
  7. I mean you aren’t wrong. Throw in a solid mullet and pornstache and I’m good to go!
  8. the top 5% of folks in society are on this board, no seriously we are going to rank very high on access and knowledge. it's not like that for most. the stats don't lie. our food is shit, our access to health care is shit. and the care is shit... for most of the population. yes at the highest levels of education and access you can get good care, including doctors that will get into diet and exercise beyond telling you to do it. but for the 95% yeah, no. what does that do? leave a breeding ground for misinformation, alt bullshit, etc. but in the end I don't give a fuck. I'm fit, healthy, fine. so you guys can win, you're right, US food and healthcare system is top notch, no issues.
  9. the height bias in humans is seriously strong. like shockingly strong.
  10. This guy in law school showed up and started hitting on the women, he wasn't great looking but he knew where his strengths lie.... guy opened up with wanna go out on a date, I've got a 12 inch dick... of course I'm now friends with some of my women classmates from back in the day. most guys just assumed he was aspergers or something, no turns out the guy had a 12 inch dick. who knew.
  11. I missed the ' in 6' and thought it was " as in 6" + and thought damn, women are getting aggressive and demand-forward in their online dating profiles. I just be like, yes nail care is important to me, I take care of mine and keep them trimmed and well out of the danger zone.
  12. I'm doing fine on all 6 fronts for wellness myself. but if you think pharma, research, medical schools and doctors aren't failing Americans in healthcare then you aren't paying attention to how absolutely fucking broke our healthcare system is. most money spent and some of the worst outcomes in the developed world. our food system is fucking trash compared to Europe and our medical system is worse.
  13. middle aged women have this boomerang back on them. I've warned more than a few straight women who are thinking of divorce, "are you sure?" and then I say things like, "look, men your age aren't likely to want to date you, they may want to fuck you but when it's time to resettle they are going younger" and things like, "if you want a divorce first make sure you are 100% okay with being alone and occasionally sleeping around" because that's about all that's guaranteed here. same thing, young women are choosing not to be in relationships, middle aged single women can't find them. and there are plenty of lazy women, plenty that are not worth the time, but this thread is about young men and young women.
  14. what makes you say that? 25% but the key is, make sure she sees you doing it without it looking like your showing off.
  15. reminds me I sealed the deal with my current wife on an offshore fishing trip in Mexico. she saw me with my feet up relaxing, maxing life out catching wahoo or something like that, and thought damn she's got her life figured out. I want some of that. fishing is always the answer.
  16. band ain't like band when we were in school. there are some good looking guys, fit as can be and some cute girls too. that's what happens in a school of 3500-4000.
  17. right, masculinity isn't the problem, lazy masculinity is the problem (so is this stupid fucking alpha male masculinity bullshit). but you're not paying attention if you think the landscape on what women have to tolerate hasn't changed. It's changed A LOT. Most men adapt because undefeated. but to keep up, average men do have to adapt and up their game now. My oldest son has issues. I'd rather not share about them on the internet though. My youngest is TBD, he's a gamer but he's also straight A's, leader in band, excels in music, and he's ambitious, works out, charming, funny and has cuteAF freckles, dimples and hazel eyes.... so when he decides he wants it, he could be ok.
  18. though you didn't wade into professional or emotional issues too much here, I can say you don't sound like any of these guys. there really are grown men who are absolute bumps on a log. like for real.
  19. and guess who is teaching him how to be a man? a trans woman. You're god damn right I'm a groomer. I think I know a thing or two about gender and relationships.
  20. and my straight girlfriends in the middle of, contemplating or just finishing their divorces... what do I hear? "I'm tired of doing all the work." "I don't want to be with a bump on a log." "He has no idea what he wants, I can't live like this." "the only thing he's good for is killing a snake and lifting heavy things." all kinds of shit like that. the answer is easy, do the fucking work, don't be lazy.
  21. Eh, as I alluded to above, stop being a net negative in women’s lives and you’ll be fine. Understand what they want, provide that and boom you get the girl. Whether it’s politics, emotional IQ, money, picking up after yourself, helping around the house or whatever, be the excellent version of you and someone will buy.
  22. Lot going on here but fundamentally the world changes, women can live on their own and their ability to want more or want different has evolved. Not every rule has changed but some have. I have a unique perspective, and I am raising 2 boys and have a 3rd out of the house. My 17 year old is a really good looking young man and he’s got adult level game. Doesn’t always translate to the teens but he has it going on. all this talk about masculinity is toxic is nonsense. Toxic masculinity is a problem. Lazy masculinity is a problem. You want the girl, figure out what she wants and needs and provide it. what’s his secret? Starts simple - good hygiene, fantastic smile, pays attention to what he wears. He works out, keeps his truck clean, has money and is not concerned about spending it on good times with friends. He saves money too. From there he likes to have a good time, understands the power of telling a good story, making people laugh, and making people feel good about themselves. he knows how to appreciate, compliment, carry on a conversation and frankly has being a good conversationalist as his his number one trait he is looking for in a girl after physical attraction when looking to date. he understands his emotions, he can talk about them, he can be vulnerable and he also knows that tending to his emotional wounds and needs is his responsibility first but that being seen is critical to a positive relationship. He is slow to anger, he is a great listener. in his personal time he’s always learning and wanting to be a better version of himself. He knows how to make things, he knows how to take care of things, he loves the outdoors, camping, and other guy things. But he loves the theatre too. He’s not afraid to follow his interests. He’s NOT a gamer but when friends come over he will whip their ass at Mario kart. He buys video games to entertain his friends when they come over, but rarely plays alone. when it comes to being a man his ideas are forming but I’m pretty sure if I asked him to articulate it based solely on my observations of what he does and what he says he would say something like this … Positive masculinity, being a successful man means knowing who you are, managing your life well so that you can include another human in your life and you can be a positive addition to theirs, making others around you feel more confident, secure and positive about themselves. At times helping to carry whatever burden needs to be carried whether it’s hanging art on the wall, fixing a leaky toilet, talking out a work problem or working through our own emotional crosswires. When times are good, making people laugh, making memories, and celebrating life’s small and large accomplishments. Above all else, being kind, having fun, and being a net positive in a relationship is the secret to a happy wife and a happy life. I’ll sum it up by saying this we went to a theatre production of what the constitution means to me and the premise is that the constitution has not protected women like it was supposed to. He left feeling bad, I asked him, he said, “you know, I’ll be fine, I’m a straight white guy, but many people I love aren’t going to be ok and that upsets me.” <— that right there is positive masculinity. this young man has dated about 10 girls in 3 years of high school and he’s on his 4th legit girlfriend. Only one girl refused to keep seeing him, he’s been the one to break up with them. boys and men need to up their game, what women have to tolerate has changed and what they want is more clear and it will require boys and men to up their game. but its not a criticism of masculinity its a criticism of lazy masculinity.
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