If you're complaining about civilian casualties, when Hamas is using them as human shields, you're pressuring Israel not to deal with Hamas. If you're bemoaning damage to infrastructure, when Hamas is tunneling under schools and using aid money to build bunkers under hospitals, you're pressuring Israel not to deal with Hamas. If you're advocating for a cease fire, when Hamas never ceased firing, you're pressuring Israel not to deal with Hamas.
Collectively, it's time for the West to grow up. This isn't a classroom, or a courtroom, and we're not dealing with rational trustworthy entities that you can assume are acting in good faith. No more idealism, no more naivete. Want to end this war and save the most civilians from death and displacement? Allow the good guys to win. No more escalation management, no more fey politicians with their "hands on the throttle". Kill the bad guys, and their enablers, and win.
No more indulging those amongst us with the "best intentions". The West is in a world war, and it's adversaries don't play by the rules, don't act in good faith, and only respond to strength. It is time to see our situation for what it is. It is time to be strong.