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My deepest condolences, there are no words that could possible assuage your family's grief - my family and I will be holding you and yours in our thoughts and prayers.

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I’m so sorry, my man.  
 

Understand that your grief and heartbreak is a sign that you were filled with love for her and her for you.   The pain shows you have loved well another being. 
 

 

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My God ... please grant some understanding and comfort to your family during this impossible time.  

I am so very very very sorry to hear this ... can't imagine what you're feeling.  

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Thoughts and prayers to your family.  Just for thought after some time has passed plant a tree/flower in her memory.  Your family will be pleased with it's growth and beauty as it grows.  I think I'll call my dad now, kinda dusty in here.

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I'm very sorry, Immortal.  We lost my 18 month old niece right before Christmas, so I can sympathize with a fraction of what you're going through, and I'm watching/helping my sister and her husband deal with it.   I don't think there's anything more emotionally difficult a human can go through.  I hope you guys are getting the help you need to survive this, and I hope that any grandparents are also being looked after.  My father seems to be taking the loss of his granddaughter harder than anyone.  No parent can imagine losing their child, even though we all live with the fear of it daily.  No grandparent ever even imagines outliving their grandchildren.  I gave the eulogy at my niece's funeral and it was the hardest fucking thing I've ever done.

 

The next few days are going to be filled with lots of planning, dealing, negotiating, talking to family and friends.  It will go by in a blur and ideally your shock will carry you through.  Stay strong for what comes after everything settles down.

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