RIP Kinky Friedman

[mdmost 42997]

I figured this was the best place to put this since he touched on many aspects of Texas: music, politics, satire, writing. I remember stumbling onto Kinky being interviewed by Glenn Mitchell of KERA (RIP) at the State Fair the year Kinky was running for Governor.  RIP

 

[Bevo 13559]

They don't make Jews like Jesus anymore

['stache 21789]

Saw him twice in person and voted for him at least once. RIP Kinky.

[HenryJames 66033]

Was there a rumor about a tumor?

[Brisketexan 105043]

A true Texas character and legend.  Bummed to hear about this one.

[YGIFS 19449]

I still remember voting for him in 2006.  Saw him sing/do book readings a few times over the years.  Hate to say that I kinda forgot about him the last few years and didn't hear much about him.  I'm guessing he was staying under the radar dealing with health issues.  Always liked him though, "He Ain't Kinky, He's My Governor."  RIP to Richard Samet Friedman this Jew who was was also born in Chicago who moved to Central Texas.  One of the last of a wonderful breed, may the four winds of cigar smoke blow you safely home...

[BurntEyes 5955]

I definitely affiliate him as a part of the central Texas/Austin culture I came to know and love when I moved there in 91. 

The world is better for curious and unique people like him. Privileged to have known who he was and been aware of his effect on the ethos. 

[F250 28761]

My first introduction to Kinky was "Asshole from El Paso." I was a fan ever since the first time I heard this song.

 

[Bevo 13559]

My brother knew him some (some Plan II prof said my brother was the second best writer he had taught - behind Kinky) and when my brother moved to New York, Kinky was there. My dad was a big fan of Kinky's music so when he visited my brother they would go see him.

 

From Texas Monthly

 

ince the stroke of midnight last December 31, Kinky Friedman has been telling anyone who will listen—friends, fans, and especially reporters—that 1993 is his “power year.” The statement is vintage Kinky, a mixture of self-promotion and hyperbole, but it also happens to be true: Never before has the 48-year-old singer, author, and raconteur had so much to feel powerful about. In just nine months, he has sold more than 100,000 copies of Old Testaments & New Revelations, a new greatest-hits compilation spanning his career as a cult country star; filmed a one-hour video, a collection of songs and shtick starring himself and his friends Willie Nelson and Sammy Allred; toured Europe hawking foreign editions of his mystery novels; and completed a new mystery, Elvis, Jesus, and Coca-Cola, which will be published this month by Simon and Schuster.

“It’s like a Second Coming to me,” Kinky says, and if it sounds as if he’s comparing himself to Christ, he is. “Lately, I’ve noticed uncanny parallels between my life and the life of Jesus,” he says. “We’re both Jewish, neither of us ever held a job, neither of us ever married, and we both traveled around the country irritating people.” Such irreverence, bordering on blasphemy, might be over the line for anyone else, but not for Kinky, who has been a crass troublemaker ever since his days as a neighborhood bad boy in Houston’s West University Place. At age nine, Richard Friedman (as he was then known) refused to participate in the Christmas pageant at Poe Elementary School—the first recorded instance, but not the last, of his wearing his Judaism on his sleeve. At age eleven, he wrote his first song—not a country ballad or a patriotic jingle but the pleasantly named “Ol’ Ben Lucas (Had a Lot of Mucus).” In the seventies, when he formed his band, the Texas Jewboys, and sang such songs as “Get Tour Biscuits in the Oven and Tour Buns in the Bed,” “Homo Erectus,” and “Ride ’Em Jewboy,” Kinky managed to offend women, gays, fellow Jews, and fellow Texans. Even when he switched from music to mysteries in the mid-eighties, he did not bother to clean up his act; his six books, including Elvis, Jesus, and Coca-Cola, are filled with smutty one-liners and slurs that make Rush Limbaugh seem sensitive.

Then again, the books are funny and oddly charming, as are most of Kinky’s songs, as is Kinky himself. Even when he attempts a defense of his political incorrectness—“Bigots need to be entertained like everyone else”—he does it with a smile, chomping on his trademark Honduran cigar for effect, and you get the sense that maybe he’s not such a jerk after all. In fact, he’s extremely likable—at turns warm, sophisticated, and sweetly insecure. He is also an engaging conversationalist, always providing new bits of information about the topic he’s most interested in: Kinky Friedman. “I’m not afraid of success, failure, life, or death,” he told me on an overcast day in July. “I’m just afraid I may have to stop talking about myself for five minutes.

He was a chess prodigy.

Kinky’s father, Tom Friedman, taught him the game when he was six. At age seven, Kinky was the youngest of fifty opponents to face Samuel Reshevsky, the Polish-born grand master, at an exhibition in Houston. “Reshevsky came over and said to me, ‘I’m sorry, but I’m going to have to beat your son,’ ” Tom recalls. “I lost in about thirty-six moves,” Kinky says of his memorable defeat.

For the next twenty years, Kinky played on and off, never professionally, and stopped altogether when he became a full-time musician. Recently, however, he has taken up chess again (“Like Churchill with the watercolors”), competing mostly against Willie Nelson, who he says is “pretty good himself.” Traveling on Willie’s tour bus from New York City to Halifax, Nova Scotia, this summer, the two men played a marathon tournament. “Willie won the first few games,” Kinky says, “but by the end, I was beating him like a drum. ”

He still lives in his parents’ house.

When he’s not making the rounds of “bookstores, whorehouses, and bar mitzvahs,” Kinky pads around the grounds of Echo Hill Ranch, the sleepaway camp his family runs on its four-hundred-acre property near the Hill Country town of Medina. The green trailer he called home for years, cluttered with pictures and posters and other souvenirs of the road, has been converted to storage space, so he works and sleeps in a cramped spare bedroom of the property’s low-slung main house, just down the hall from his septuagenarian father, Tom, a former psychology professor at the University of Texas at Austin. (Kinky’s mother, Min, who was a speech therapist, died in 1985.) Uncle Tom, as he is known, runs the camp with his thirty-year-old daughter, Marcie, but he is never more than a few steps from “Kink,” with whom he has a close relationship. Tom dotes on Kinky in public and in private, clearly proud of his accomplishments; Kinky is courteous and deferential to Tom, thanking him in Elvis, Jesus, and Coca-Cola for providing “hills to climb and stars to reach for.” Father and son speak in a form of shorthand and relish topping each other’s jokes. “I’ve got one for you,” Tom says, ambling in during one of Kinky’s rare quiet moments. “A Jewish guy gets hit by a car and is spread out on the ground. A cop comes up to him and asks, ‘Are you comfortable?’ The guy looks up at the cop, shrugs his shoulders, and says, ‘I make a living.’ ”

Kinky does not pay rent for living at Echo Hill; rather, in exchange for what he calls (again) “an ascetic, Christ-like existence,” he takes care of the camp’s laundry. Four mornings a week during the summer, Kinky rolls out of bed at six-thirty and dons his usual outfit—a short-sleeved polo shirt, beat-up blue jeans, and boots—while counselors load the sweaty socks and dirty shirts of one hundred pre-teens into the back of his pickup truck. Half an hour later, he drives sixteen miles to the dry cleaner in Kerrville, where he drops the bundles off before stopping at his favorite restaurant, the Del Norte, for his regular breakfast of yolkless huevos rancheros. He then heads back to the ranch at around nine-thirty and arrives there by ten—quittin’ time. “It’s the first job I ever had,” he says. “It makes me feel like a real working man.”

He has eaten monkey brains with Pygmies.

After graduating from UT’s Plan II program in 1966—a program he says is “distinguished by the fact that every student has some sort of facial tic”—Kinky joined the Peace Corps. In 1967 he was sent to the jungles of Borneo, where he spent two years with the Punan tribe as an agricultural extension worker. His greatest achievement during that time, he says, was teaching Chinese and Malay children to throw a Frisbee. Anxious to assimilate, he regularly ate monkey brains—a native delicacy—with his hosts. “They were wet and chewy,” he says, “kind of like chicken-fried steak before it has been chicken-fried.” He also got a tattoo of a dog on his left inner forearm from another tribe, the Kayan. “It’s an awful procedure. First they give you a jungle cigar and make you chew beetlenut and drink rice wine; the combination makes you very amphibious. Then they nail pig fat under your skin using real nails and a hammer. You bleed profusely.”

He thinks country music ain’t what it used to be.

During his four-year stint with the Texas Jewboys (1973 through 1976), Kinky performed songs that tended toward social satire (“Ballad of Charles Whitman,” “We Reserve the Right to Refuse Service to You”), but his voice was better than average: clear and deep, with a nonintrusive twang. He is very much a singer in the tradition of his childhood idols Hank Williams and Jimmie Rodgers, and his unadorned guitar playing would probably pass muster with another idol, Ernest Tubb, whom he met when he was fifteen. All of which doesn’t make Kinky a grand old man of country music—just someone well positioned to mourn the passing of its “undecaffeinated era.”

“These new country stars seem to pop out of the recording studio devoid of emotional heritage,” he says. “They’re big stars in a week. I’m sure Garth Brooks is a very nice guy, but the people who go to see him could have just as easily been at Disneyland and would have liked it just as much. I’ve taken to calling him the anti-Hank. Actually, I blame [the band] Alabama for the demise of country: They crossed over, everyone followed them, and no one came back.”

He saved the life of the woman accused of killing John Belushi.

In January 1984, five years after he moved to New York City, Kinky was walking down a Greenwich Village street in search of cigars when he saw a man assaulting a woman near an automatic teller machine. Without thinking, he freed the woman, grabbed the man, and waited for the police to arrive. The next day’s New York Post put Kinky’s picture on page one, under the headline COUNTRY SINGER PLUCKS VICTIM FROM MUGGER. Only later did Kinky learn the identity of the victim: She was Cathy Smith, who the previous year had been indicted for injecting Belushi, Kinky’s friend and ex-roommate, with a lethal mixture of drugs. “Out of twelve million people in the city, it had to be her,” he says.

Of course, the incident had an upside. Inspired by his good deed and the attention it won him, Kinky decided to write a mystery novel in which a country singer from Texas solves a New York crime in his spare time. A few months later, he completed Greenwich Killing Time. The eighteenth publisher he showed it to offered him a contract; it and four subsequent mysteries (A Case of Lone Star, When the Cat’s Away, Frequent Flyer, and Musical Chairs) have sold a total of one million copies.

Abbie Hoffman is the reason he wasn’t elected Kerrville’s justice of the peace.

Upon returning to Texas in 1986, Kinky began what started out as a joke campaign for the JP job in Kerrville. He ran under the slogans “He’ll keep us out of war with Fredericksburg” and “As the first Jewish justice of the peace in Kerrville, I will reduce the speed limit to 54.95.” To make things interesting, Kinky ran as a Republican because no Democrat, including LBJ, had ever appealed to voters there. Yet as the race progressed, Kinky realized he really wanted to win. “I hadn’t done anything with people on the local level since leaving the Peace Corps,” he says. When the Today show aired a segment on his campaign—complete with shots of him handing out leaflets, Huey Long–style, on the steps of the post office—he pulled to within a few percentage points of his rivals.

Two weeks before the election, however, a wire service reporter called to ask Kinky whether there was any truth to the rumor that sixties radical Abbie Hoffman had holed up at the Friedman ranch while he was a fugitive from justice. “It was true,” Kinky says. “I told him that Abbie was a friend in need and that I would do the same for any other friend in need.” The Hoffman story was the last straw for voters in law-abiding Kerrville, who were already miffed that Kinky referred to them as Kerr-verts, and Kinky was “returned to the private sector,” beaten handily in the GOP primary by a woman named Pat Knox, who remains the JP to this day.

He’s dating a former Miss Texas.

In 1991 Kinky played a concert in Kerrville benefiting Ace Reid, the legendary cowboy cartoonist. After the show, he was introduced by a mutual friend to Jo Thompson, a tall, pretty brown-haired native of Lufkin who won the Miss Texas pageant in 1987. “Being a small-town girl, I thought he was totally off the wall,” she says. The two didn’t speak to or see each other until a year later, when Kinky called their friend’s house and Jo picked up the phone. Over the next few weeks, they talked again and again, each time for a little bit longer. Only after Jo became “intrigued” by Kinky did she consent to a date with him. That was late last year; they’ve been keeping company ever since.

Kinky is clearly smitten with and protective of Jo, who will soon host a country dance magazine show on the Nashville Network. He has hung a giant portrait of her—rose in mouth—above his desk at the ranch, and he takes her with him on his book tours whenever her schedule allows. Nonetheless, Kinky insists he and Jo have no plans to marry. “I suspect I’m a homosexual,” he says.

He’s huge in Europe.

Two years ago, when the British Broadcasting Company was looking for someone to host a four-part documentary on life in Texas, it bypassed Molly Ivins, Joe Bob Briggs, and other professional Texans and headed straight for the Kinkster. Texas Saturday Night, narrated by a wisecracking Kinky, became the fifth-highest-rated show in BBC history, and he was launched as a European celebrity—something, he says, on the order of “a country and western Dorothy Sayers.” Although his mysteries had been turned down by thirteen British publishers as “too American,” suddenly Faber and Faber, the publishing house where T. S. Eliot once worked as an editorial director, wanted to produce a hardcover collection of Kinky’s first three novels. “I found he had great wit and verve—a distinctive, quirky voice,” says Robert McCrum, Faber and Faber’s editor in chief. The Kinky Friedman Crime Club arrived in stores in early 1992 and quickly hit Britain’s best-seller list. (A second volume, More Kinky Friedman, which includes his last two novels and Elvis, Jesus, and Coca-Cola, has just come out.) French, Dutch, and German publishers have also put out editions of Kinky’s mysteries, though only the French and Dutch versions excite him. “The Germans are my second-favorite people in the world,” he says, mindful of his heritage. “Everybody else is my first.”

This summer Faber and Faber sent Kinky and Jo on a book tour of Paris, Edinburgh, Dublin, London, and Amsterdam (where they visited Anne Frank’s house). At each stop, Kinky sold some books and played a few songs, and Jo led a Texas two-step workshop. Together, they traveled around in a 1952 Cadillac similar to the one Hank Williams died in. “I call it the Yom Kippur Clipper,” Kinky says. “It stops on a dime and then picks it up.”

The characters in his mysteries are, more or less, real.

As in Kinky’s previous books, the narrator of Elvis, Jesus, and Coca-Cola is a singer-turned-detective named Kinky Friedman who lives in a loft on Vandam Street in Greenwich Village. With the help of the Village Irregulars—Mike McGovern, Ratso Sloman, Steven Rambam, and Chinga Chavin—he must determine the connection between the death of his friend Tom Baker and the disappearance of his sometime girlfriend Uptown Judy. Meanwhile, he must prevent his other sometime girlfriend, Downtown Judy, from finding out there ever was an Uptown Judy. Complicating matters are the hostile questions of police sergeant Mort Cooperman, who is assigned to the case, and the noisy interruptions of Winnie Katz, a dance instructor who lives in the loft above Kinky’s.

All of these people exist, though the extent to which Kinky has faithfully portrayed them varies. First, there are characters whose names and professions are real. These include the narrator, whose hard-boiled vocabulary (the phone is “the blower,” noon is “Gary Cooper time”) and R-rated wit mimics the author’s, as well as McGovern, who until recently was a reporter for the New York Daily News; Sloman, an ex-editor of National Lampoon; Rambam, a “half-Jewish, half-Italian” private investigator; Chavin, Kinky’s ex-roommate at UT and the founder of a New York ad agency; and the late Baker, an actor and a onetime Jim Morrison confidant. Second, there are characters whose names are the only real thing about them; the best example is Mort Cooperman, who instead of being a cop is the owner of the Lone Star Roadhouse, where Kinky regularly played on Sunday nights in the early eighties. Third, there are characters who are based on real people but have different names. For instance, a noisy dance instructor really did live in the loft above Kinky’s, but her name wasn’t Winnie Katz. And Kinky really had, at the same time, two different girlfriends with the same name (not Judy) who didn’t know of each other’s existence. “They do now,” he says.

His next book is set in Texas.

While he was writing Elvis, Jesus, and Coca-Cola, Kinky grew bored with the characters and the standard Manhattan setting. He even contemplated the untimely death of the detective he patterned after himself. “The word ‘tedious’ came to mind,” he says. “Like Conan Doyle with Sherlock Holmes, I thought about killing him off.”

Instead, Kinky decided to move his next mystery home. It is called Ten Pretty Girls, and it takes place in Kerrville. Kinky won’t say what it’s about—only that he has finished about two hundred pages, that he is in it, and that he has included many characters based on real-life Hill Country friends. One of them is Pat Knox, Kerrville’s justice of the peace.

His movie may finally be getting off the ground.

To ferret out the truth about Kinky, you often have to halve or double whatever he says. It’s not that he’s a liar; it’s just that his exuberance sometimes butts heads with reality. Case in point: Kinky has been telling reporters for two years that A Case of Lone Star, his mystery about a killer who thinks he’s Hank Williams, will soon be made into a movie. In fact, while he might have wanted it to happen, the project never really progressed beyond the option stage.

This fall, however, the deal may actually get done. Tarquin Goetch, the British-born executive producer of Home Alone, is collaborating with Kinky on a screenplay based on the book; the script should be completed by the end of the year, at which point Goetch will shop it around to his Hollywood friends. A few months ago, Kinky settled on a sound track, which includes a version of “Cowboys Are Frequently, Secretly Fond of Each Other” that he and Willie Nelson have recorded. Besides Nelson, Bob Dylan has agreed to appear in the movie, and Kinky is happy to dispel any notion that the rock star will be lifeless on screen. “Bob’s a party waiting to happen,” he says. “There’s no truth to the rumor that the date on his carton has expired.” Other performers who have expressed interest in joining the cast include Dennis Hopper, Dean Stockwell, Ruth Buzzi, Kris Kristofferson, Steve Allen, Dom DeLuise, Harry Dean Stanton, and Richard Moll. Kinky, naturally, will play himself.

[Guadaloopy 10954]

He was an answer to a Trivial Pursuit question that I nailed many years ago.  As the only Texan in the group playing, it blew my friends' minds that I got that one right.  I will always be grateful for that moment. 

Edited June 27 by Guadaloopy

[YGIFS 19449]

I had no idea he roomed with John Belushi.  Holy shit, if ever there was a "If these walls could talk" scenario.  My lord.  

[Texzilla588 769]

I met him a couple of times at shows in Memphis and at either AWC or Antones. I was doing midnites at KSUD in college which was in West Memphis on the wrong side of the levee. In the spring you had to take a little boat with a trolling motor to the transmitter on stilts. You just prayed you didn’t get sucked into the current of the Mississippi. I usually played a kinky tune each shift, since we were the “most outlaw country this side of the Red River. “

He was so funny with his Willie and Waylon adjacent shows; he was part of the Austin outlaw scene very early with Asshole from El Paso. His novels were really good easy reads and described a hill country life that went away with Apple and Dell money destroying all of that.

Rest easy Kinky. Like Jerry Jeff, you weren’t Native Texans but yall got here as fast as you could, and you both embraced the idea of Texas better than most that are born here. God bless you, you helped make a better Texas with your contributions.

[RPM 26315]

I met him at Farm Aid 2. Joined the local Kinky for Governor group just for kicks. Did not disappoint. RIP Jew Boy. My cats have claws.

Edited June 27 by RPM

[DalTxHornFan 3097]

 

[randomhorn 1722]

RIP. I really enjoyed his writing.

Though, ngl, I thought he had died years ago.

[RPM 26315]

[jimmyjazz 45877]

I posted this on the thread in Music, should have checked here:

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I loved that guy.  Only met him once -- I was at the Threadgill's just south of the river, waiting on my wife to get out of the bathroom and up walks Kinky.  I held the door open for him and said "hey, I heard you were jokingly considering a run for governor, but if you actually run, you've got my vote".  He looked at me kinda puzzled and said "really?"  "Yes sir."  "Huh, maybe I should run".  And he did.

 

[TwiceHorn 31434]

RIP Richard BigDick Kinky Friedman.  An original, for sure.

[Wally Pryor 5261]

 

[NeverMarryAStripper 21867]

This makes me extremely sad.  He was a genuine Texas legend.   I saw him live several times. My favorite was at the Lone Star Cafe when I was living in Manhattan.  I have several autographed copies of his books that I got a signings around town and all of his albums.  Of course, I voted for him every time.

 

[HenryJames 66033]

1 hour ago, RPM said:

Friend ended up being the campaign counsel by calling them to volunteer for whatever. 'Hey, you want to be counsel?' 

Another friend was the campaign press secretary, and she came up with some of the great lines that Kinky said during the campaign.

Their buddies still love to listen to them when they talk about that year.

 

[MAUFRAIS 6615]

Dug this hat out

[3adays 454]

I once bumped into him downtown and he asked me “do you know where the Omni Hotel/Austin Center is”? I simply pointed at it as we were standing in front of it and he said “thank you good my good man”. After that, I read all his books and voted for him. RIP Kinky 

[Armybrat 40815]

I voted for him too.

RIP Kinky.

[Harrison Stafford 3335]

A man who could hang with New York’s elite and Texas trailer trash.  I was fortunate enough to have a one on one conversation with the man for a good 30 minutes and, yeah, he got my vote.  

[blacklab 11926]

Fucker owes me money.

I hosted his website when he was running for something in the early 2000's, city council or mayor or something. They never paid their bill and once the election was over the phone number we had for them was dead. From that point on I charged all political campaigns up front.

[msucolt45 4052]

I always remembered him as the eccentric from Texas Monthy growing up.

RIP Kinky!

Hook’em!!!

[MAUFRAIS 6615]

Wait how old are you?

[RDCanecutter 26377]

My dad shook hands with him and liked him, which I can't say for everybody the old man met. Probably voted for him as well. I was out of state or I would have as well.

[baboso 6054]

Still wear both of them periodically.

[baboso 6054]

My fave is the “How hard could it be” one, a subtle swipe at W.

[BottleRocket 644]

I spent an evening drinking with him at the Tremont Hotel bar in Galveston.  We were watching a Texas Rangers game.  He was drinking shots of tequila.  His response to me telling him that I voted for him was "Yeah.... if you and everyone else that has told me that actually voted for me, you would be sitting here drinking with the Governor of Texas right now."

[mooseoutfront 3643]

Inside of the front door to our cabin. That sign has been keeping the summer sun at bay going on 14 years. 
 

He will be missed. 

[Izhmash 562]

He had me at “I support gay marriage because I think gay people should have the right to be as miserable as the rest of us.”

['stache 21789]

I saw him in Tulsa a while back, told him where I was from, and he signed my book in a way I always remember. Also, this one made me cry, even before he died. Just watched again and it’s dusty af.

 

[NeverMarryAStripper 21867]

His second to last album might be his best.  A dog Named Freedom is one of my favorite songs