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14 minutes ago, RDCanecutter said:

The drug is gonna work.

From what I heard second hand the doctors were not freaking out with enjoy your life while you can statements so it seems stage 4 cancer isn’t a death sentence anymore and they were confident in the drug’s efficacy they did say “if it works” though. But yeah my wife was optimistic. 

still she’s got to be zero estrogen for life so there’s complication with that plus the drug. Good news is most common side effects are some but not extreme fatigue and some GI irritation. Could be a lot worse. We think the estrogen side effects will be the hardest actually - bone loss being the top one. 

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Yep. During my Stage 4 "talk" Doc told me how she plans drug treatments, tldr it's entirely possible to live a very long happy life if A, B, and C, just like your odds if you didn't have cancer.

My Mom commented a few years ago that my odds of long life may actually be better WITH cancer because I wasn't being careful at all before.

But I mean, it's all the blink of an eye when said and done. You just dwell on the good days, and enjoy them. Who the hell wants to hang around for 200 years anyway.

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25 minutes ago, RDCanecutter said:

, tldr it's entirely possible to live a very long happy life if A, B, and C, just like your odds if you didn't have cancer.

My Mom commented a few years ago that my odds of long life may actually be better WITH cancer because I wasn't being careful at all before.

I have a 20 year term policy that ended about two years ago.   I started looking for replacement term insurance as a cancer survivor, and was told all the blah blah blah about increased premiums, reduced benefits, an add-on “you had cancer once”  penalty etc.

I tend to wander through PubMed from time to time, looking at the latest stuff on colon cancer, especially return of colon cancer, and I see that someone who is my sex and age who has never had cancer would have a 3% chance of contracting it in their lifetime.   I found a couple of long term studies that showed a breakdown of colon cancer returning by a lot of categories. On the age and sex category, the chance of that same person my age and sex having colon cancer again is between 1 and 2%. 

So even though the underwriting shows less of a risk for me than if I had never had cancer, insurance company gonna charge me with a cancer premium penalty multiplier that is untethered from medical and actuarial evidence.  Capitalism and all.

But returning to the point I was trying to make, the fact that I now pound vitamin C, D and E, watch my diet and exercise more -and get numerous bloodwork and scans and colonoscopies - undoubtedly makes the reoccurrence (or at least a fatal reoccurrence) less likely then some dude my age walking down the street who never had cancer. 

That and medical marijuana are a couple good things that came from me getting cancer I guess. And maybe one other. My ex-wife is rumored to have said about my cancer diagnosis:  “Ubet always infuriated me with his risktaking and never worrying about anything…this is only gonna make that worse”.    She was right.

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On 12/6/2024 at 7:44 AM, hornbri said:

Yeah it was a PET CT, she is getting one every couple of months right now, they were ill defined spots right now. But because she is a sarcoma patient any spots that were not on the last scan are worrying, so they just went right to biopsy. I should be grateful the doctors are being careful, and hopefully it’s just residual from the pneumonia that did occur between the scans.

I think this is the first time I am appreciating that life will never be the same for us, there will be scans for the rest of her life and there will be random setbacks, we somehow need to find the strength to live a full life and not be in fear. 

New update…this journey can be a roller coaster. 

So in Early December when they saw the spots on her lung there was also a spot in her right leg, they didn’t seem concerned but ordered a MRI anyway. 

After we learned her lungs were infection, we got a call about her leg and were told “MRI confirms it is cancer, we need to start a new chemo treatment.”

We agreed to get the ball rolling on setting up the new chemo regime, but also asked to do a biopsy to confirm the mets in her leg (13mm spot). 

Last week we have a CT biopsy for her leg, and the spots were gone, doctors took it as confirmation it was infection or a blood clot….she never got to the chemo due to just taking a while to schedule. 

So radiologist can be wrong…i am kinda annoyed the doctor did not insist on a biopsy first but going forward we know to ask and push for it. 

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18 hours ago, troph said:

Y'all know what I and my wife have been through the last six months - and the last week if you visit the getting old sucks thread - well today she took her best friend to MD Anderson - best friend has stage 4 breast cancer - they can’t find it in the breast, they found it in her lymph nodes and blood. Turns out even mammograms every six months didn’t turn it up (family history led to more frequent scans). Not the lumpy kind, oh great. So far gone, they won’t do radiation, chemo or surgery. There is an immunological drug that’s been approved for about 5 years that could work but she’ll be on the drug for life and they also have to stamp down her estrogen to zero since it’s estrogen dependent. Won’t know if it works for 4 months. MD Anderson is the fucking tits though. Got this all done in two days, she’s on  the estrogen blockers tonight will have the cancer drug by next week.  I really hope this works, she’s an amazing lady, and my wife’s bestie. I remember when my wife wondered if this woman liked us and she was worried because she wanted to be her friend. Fuck. 

About 2 years ago my wife was complaining about one of her breast having a spot where it was extremely painful. She went for a “normal” mammogram and it did not find anything. Her gyno is an awesome doctor, so she sent her for a 3D mammogram. That test ended up finding a mass. Thankfully, it turned out to be non-cancerous. It did reveal that apparently she has really dense breast tissue, so a normal mammogram might not show something that is actually there. 
Since then, she has done the 3D mammogram. I believe there is also a breast MRI, but the closest one to us is 2.5 hours away. 
 

Hope your wife’s friend kicks cancers ass. 

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On 1/17/2025 at 10:17 PM, troph said:

MD Anderson is the fucking tits though.

Word!! Everything about that place rocks.  

The first time I went in a men’s room stall there and saw the sign saying “call this number if you’ve soiled yourself and we will come assist you” - I knew those folks had their shit together and were all about helping patients with the myriad horrible problems that came with the disease.

your wife and MD Anderson are about to kick some serious cancer ass

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My wife’s bestie but if my wife had the chance to kick cancers ass she would certainly try. She’s certainly gonna help her friend try.

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You don’t have to actually have it to help kick its ass.   And there is never a time not to kick its ass.  And you can even sucker punch it when it’s not looking at you and no one will speak badly about you.  

And you can repeatedly scream “Kisqali” at it as it slowly dies after a good PET scan and…

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see…nobody cares.

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7 minutes ago, AustinDom said:

Long time lurker here.  And have referenced this thread a ton as I await my biopsy results in a couple of days.  I had a PSA result spike and my urologist recommended an MRI, which necessitated a prostate biopsy.  My gut feels like it's cancer and caught early, and treatment would likely be RALP...but hoping that I'm wrong.  Reading the stories and advise has been a huge help and appreciate what everyone has gone through.  Keep kicking cancer's ass.

If you get it, you'll hunt it down and kill it. Hope it's nothing, but if it is, kick the shit out of it.

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2 hours ago, AustinDom said:

Long time lurker here.  And have referenced this thread a ton as I await my biopsy results in a couple of days.  I had a PSA result spike and my urologist recommended an MRI, which necessitated a prostate biopsy.  My gut feels like it's cancer and caught early, and treatment would likely be RALP...but hoping that I'm wrong.  Reading the stories and advise has been a huge help and appreciate what everyone has gone through.  Keep kicking cancer's ass.

Praying for you. If you’ve read the thread, I’ve shared my experience (sounds similar to yours), but I’m happy to share any of my experiences as I’m 13 months post-prostatectomy if it would be helpful. 

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Good labs today. Kidney function (was in 1.3 to 1.6 range, but skidded to 2.5) is now back to 2.0. Other numbers not too incredibly high or low.

Still Pillsbury-Doughboy-bloated, but able to get up stairs better. So either the water weight dropped a smidge, or else I've developed some of that Great Big Fat Person Strength.

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13 minutes ago, AustinDom said:

Update:  I saw my urologist today and my biopsy came back cancer free.  Fuck yeah!   I have a repeat biopsy in 6 months to verify but otherwise all good.  

Sounds like you are pre-kicking its ass. Well done.

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Wife had a follow up PET scan this week, confirmed the spots in her lungs and legs were gone on their own so they were all likely infection. She is officially in surveillance mode, and no more chemo for now!
New scans every 2-3 months for at least 2 more years is the current plan. 
Thanks for all the continued support, and keep up the fight!

Love this update, man. Y’all should celebrate with wild and boundless sex. Tell your wife Dr Brisket said so.
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On 1/20/2025 at 10:15 PM, AustinDom said:

Long time lurker here.  And have referenced this thread a ton as I await my biopsy results in a couple of days.  I had a PSA result spike and my urologist recommended an MRI, which necessitated a prostate biopsy.  My gut feels like it's cancer and caught early, and treatment would likely be RALP...but hoping that I'm wrong.  Reading the stories and advise has been a huge help and appreciate what everyone has gone through.  Keep kicking cancer's ass.

Reach out if you want some advice or have questions.

edit: just saw you other post. Congrats!

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After months without Keytruda, and taking half-doses of Lenvima, got scans.

Good Clean Boring Scans.

Meanwhile the Let's-See-How-Much-Water-Weight-We-Can-Load-Onto-RD science project is winding down. A week ago I sorta went Bolshevik and told them what I wanted to happen, and dang if they didn't add some drugs that work. Legs are at maybe 75% strength instead of 50, each day a little more of the Swollen Horrors become a memory.

Just in time. Two art shows this weekend and I'm gonna find out how low my low gear will go when heaving boxes and tables. Upper body strength is a study in atrophy, but with my freakish pre-cancer-unknown lizardlike powers of regeneration, I expect to harden the fuck up Australia. Plus Mrs. Canecutter has agreed to sacrifice her free time and will be there to keep selling art, should I collapse and start thrashing on the pavement.

And it's warm again. Fuck all the bullshit, prepare to counterattack.

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21 minutes ago, pops said:

So...update on my dad. No one remembers. One post. It's fine. But prostate cancer. He really didn't want to get it removed because of the sides and was very hopeful about a different way to do it with a laser or hot water or something to cut the tumors out at the mayo clinic. 

Consults looked good but the labs came back not great. My dad was gutted. Asked the doc what he would do if it was his dad in the exact same scenario. Doc said he wouldn't hesitate to just get it cut out. 

So... Last Monday was surgery. Doc said it went great, apparently his anatomy is such that he has lots of room in his abdomen and there was basically zero risk of nerve damage and the prostate wasn't pushing pp against the bladder so doc felt like there really wouldn't be many side effects. 

Yanked the catheter on Wednesday and did scans. Pathology came back today and zero cancer. It never left the prostate. I had a good cry. 

God bless all of you dealing with this shit. 

Give em hell, Dad.

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So...update on my dad. No one remembers. One post. It's fine. But prostate cancer. He really didn't want to get it removed because of the sides and was very hopeful about a different way to do it with a laser or hot water or something to cut the tumors out at the mayo clinic. 
Consults looked good but the labs came back not great. My dad was gutted. Asked the doc what he would do if it was his dad in the exact same scenario. Doc said he wouldn't hesitate to just get it cut out. 
So... Last Monday was surgery. Doc said it went great, apparently his anatomy is such that he has lots of room in his abdomen and there was basically zero risk of nerve damage and the prostate wasn't pushing pp against the bladder so doc felt like there really wouldn't be many side effects. 
Yanked the catheter on Wednesday and did scans. Pathology came back today and zero cancer. It never left the prostate. I had a good cry. 
God bless all of you dealing with this shit. 

Good shit, man!
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He chose wisely.  If you opt for most of the other treatments and the cancer returns, it s pretty much guaranteed you'll be incontinent the rest if your life.  That is what the initial urologist I met told me and then was echoed by the doctor at MD Anderson that invented the robotic procedure used today.

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